A public school worker at Great Salt Bay Community School who coached a 13-year-old girl into a gender transition without telling her parents has only a conditional license to practice social work in Maine, The Maine Wire has learned.
Amber Lavigne, the mother of the young girl, revealed at a school board meeting Wednesday that she discovered a chest binder in her daughter’s bedroom several weeks ago. Her daughter told her the binder was provided by a social worker at the public school who encouraged her to keep it secret from her parents, she said.
That’s when Lavigne learned that the social worker and other school staff had started a social gender transition for the girl in October without her parent’s knowledge or consent.
Sources have confirmed that the social worker in question is Sam Roy, a 26-year-old UMaine graduate student who has a conditional license from the state of Maine to work as a social worker.
Roy started working with the Damariscotta school this fall.
Roy has scheduled to graduate next year from the University of Maine with his Master’s Degree in social work, according to his LinkedIn page, but records indicate he passed his masters exam in June.
Roy earned his Bachelor’s Degree in psychology and social work from the University of Maine in 2020.
According to his LinkedIn page, Roy was a member of the Guitar Club at UMaine in Orono, and he served in 2016 as Public Relations Officer for the “Wilde Stein: Queer Straight Alliance.”
Lavigne learned that the school had begun transitioning her daughter when she discovered a chest binder in the girl’s bedroom.
A chest binder is a device that flatten’s the appearance of a woman’s breasts. They are sometimes used by individuals suffering from gender dysphoria or gender confusion. Unless worn properly, binders can cause or exacerbate health problems.
Binders are typically used during social gender transitions and are considered a stepping stone to an eventual double mastectomy, a surgery that removes healthy breast tissue.
Lavigne learned from her daughter that Roy had encouraged her to conceal the binder from her parents, she said. She had no idea school staff were using masculine pronouns for her daughter.
Although Lavigne knew that her daughter was seeing a social worker through the school, she did not know that her daughter was reassigned to Roy in October. She has never seen or talked to Roy.
Less than two weeks after meeting her daughter, and just a few weeks after the girl turned 13, Roy supplied the chest binder, Lavigne said.
She also did not say what the district’s policy is for hiring conditionally licensed staff to act as social workers.
Great Salt Bay Community School’s secret grooming of the girl came to light on Wednesday during a meeting of the school board.
At the school board meeting, Lavigne tearfully addressed school officials and described the harm the school had caused to her family.
“A social worker at the school encouraged a student to keep a secret from her parents,” she said.
“This is the very definition of child predatory sexual grooming,” she said. “Predators work to gain a victims’ trust by driving a wedge between them and their parents.”
“Laws, policies, and parental trust were broken,” she said. “No other parent should have to go through the trauma and distress this has caused my family.”
